Copyright OCD-UK 2004-2022 I shouldn't have to give up my slot because he can't be on time. But he said he wants to change and I went to give him a chance." My boyfriend is never mean to me, even when he's angry. Every time I ignore him he comes rerunning at me, he literally chased me going 60 calling me non stop. Maybe my approach did not tell him that I liked him 100% but yesterday he kep. Nearly 5,000 years have passed, and Avatar: The Way of Water has gone from man to myth to legend. I think he may have had ROCD. So you haven't done anything wrong here except try and boost a friend when he was feeling a bit down. Trump criticized Biden for not bringing Paul Whelan home from Russia. I had seen his many times through his myspace, facebook, bebo, youtube etc. Genuinely this is OCD blowing something way out of proportion to how important the issue really is. I'm nowhere near perfecting it just yet but I'm getting there, but I know it will take a while. I'm sure most people would have done the same with or without OCD. "library boy" I don't know his name yet that's what I call him. Run like the wind. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Performance". Immy85, Ive been involved in a 6year on & off again affair. No late night calls asking him to talk, no long emails explaining what you are feeling and no text messages trying to get his attention. I also remember this man texting me after my husband and I started dating but I never responded to him. For example: 'I did something wrong ' implies that what you did is completely in the past. He got married & several months later we crossed paths again & started to talk. This all happened in between fighting back & forth & h telling me if he just wanted sex then why wouldn't he try in 3 years & deal with all this emotional stuff. Try our Symptom Checker Got any other symptoms? She was out and about with a reactive dog in a popular dog walking spot so she was putting herself at risk. When I would cut him off, he would do things like wait outside a store of he saw my car, drive behind me if I ignored him. Out of these, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. I suppose it's just because it's a real-life issue that actually has happened. You were not married or seriously dating your husband. Cause at the end of the day- that's the man that has been with you from day one- the man that you have been hiding yourself from for years. Thanks very much for the reply. 3 Did I do something wrong or have I done something wrong? When I'm with him I've never felt scared but I did often feel like some of his behaviors were odd. because I see how reassurance does keep the whole dreaded OCD cycle going. The solution we have for "Did I do something wrong?" has a total of 13 letters. Trump speaks at Mar-a-Lago on Nov. 15. appropriate medical assistance immediately. I suppose it's a sign of GAD which I also have. Use of the forums is subject to our Terms of Use Yellow, black. Should I say, "Did I do something wrong," or, "Have I done something wrong?" Both are perfectly fine. After 6 years i don't want it to end like this, I don't feel I did anything to him. I'm not sure whether this may help or not, but when I first began tackling this I used the image of a box titled 'RUBBISH' and when the thought popped up I pictured it being thrown away. I don't want to sound like I'm blaming him, but he did ask me for my photo first and I figured as I'm one of the few people who don't have a Myspace, Bebo, Facebook (nowadays you can almost see a photo of anyone instantly from their profiles on these sites)I'd send him one - just "to put a face to the name" as he said. You're right about reassurance being a trap, I'll do my best to put it in the past and move on. The fallen crypto CEO on what went wrong, why he did what he did, and what lies he told along the way. The replies were quite harsh, with some people even banding around the phrase "emotional affair"!!!! You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. and read an account of someone in a similar situation looking for advice, saying their online friend had fallen for them. Thank you also to Gemini and Ashley for your very kind words. Subject: Re:Did I do something wrong here? Michael Jabara Carley is a specialist in 20th century international relations and the history of Russia and the Soviet Union. Hal, thanks for your reply too - I am quite sure it is OCD making me go over what I did and re-analysing it, whereas before I would not have given it a second thought. I did not plan on pursuing anything with this guy. I waited for a while. But as far as I was concerned, we were just friends!! But I made this post recently and the number of people replying with "he's a terrorist, he deserves it" and "Walker did nothing wrong" and "f**k around and find out" among other defences was surprisingly high. It's been dormant for a few months as I was busy at work, but now that I'm on holidays it's come back and it's bothering me again, and along with the OCD thoughts, is quite an unpleasant combination, as I'm sure you all know! Thank you. Hal and remember_ronni, thank you so much guys for your kind words. I met this guy on craigslist back in the beginning of July. What is International Dance Day and how is it celebrated? Obviously if you keep asking for feedback from others about this, then it would be falling into the reassurance trap. I am currently trying to "confess" to other outlets get over what I am thinking so I do not have to tell my husband everything little thing I have done/thought. 1 Comment: her 3/23/2015 02:48:38 am No, you did nothing wrong. remember_ronni, thanks for those very kind words, they've really made me feel so much better already. Maybe when I feel guilty over this should I remind myself that I never had any malicious intent sending this photo (which completely had no sexual overtones - just a very normal head and shoulders shot of me)and had no idea something like this would happen (I honestly didn't)? When I couldn't understand the message, I called back, worried because something must have gone wrong on the scans for them to call. I then proceeded asking doesnt that make things awkward. You'll probably all be so annoyed at me coming back again and seeking reassurance months after making the above posts! We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. The cookie is set by the GDPR Cookie Consent plugin and is used to store whether or not user has consented to the use of cookies. I am afraid OCD or not, there are still some guys who use forums like ours for one thing, the kind of thing that happens in non OCD chat rooms in fact a few years ago we removed the gallery for that very reason. Registered number: 10004395 Registered office: Fulford Grange, Micklefield Lane, Rawdon, Leeds, LS19 6BA. Patient is a UK registered trade mark. I'm Imogen and I'm 24. I had been doing so much better in recent months but had quite a setback at the weekend. Even if I wasn't gay, I would never move in on someone else's wife. I have too much happening, not sleeping and now I am sick. and nothing would ever happen between us, my friend told me he was wondering if he should leave his wife because of these "feelings" he had for me, and feelings he had for someone else a few months before this. and Privacy Policy and steps will be taken to remove posts identified (4) He mistakenly believed that his family would stand by him. January 8, 2010 in Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Likewise, when I read posts on here, I can identify their worry content as clearly being OCD when I can't for myself! it's annoying ). Also as he had sent me a photo before (in a friendship way)I figured I probably should. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Other. And I am hugely grateful to those who already answered. Under 18 Years Old You're right about the he'll come back, he always does. A huge thank you again for your reply Hal, I really appreciate it, You're not rambling, you should hear me sometimes :lol: and no problem over replying, I'm happy to try to help. I also wanted to add that when I responded "not yet" I think I was trying to hint to him that I was dating around and not interested. On this occasion I have provided you an informative response, feedback which does not class as reassurance. You did not do anything wrong. He proceeded to unzip his pants & pull it out but I said I couldn't I have to go. I also chatted with him on the phone (once before these so-called feelings started and there was no problem) but chatted with him a couple of months later once the "feelings" had started (at which point I was still completely unaware of his "feelings")to kind of support him through the OCD as at the time both of us were suffering from a very similar form, same theme etc. He was embarrased & how dare you deny him. P.S: Yes you should have told him immediately that you were a dude. Okay remember that guy I told you about. I say run too, but you may HAVE to confess, sounds like he may become malicious & stalk & turn crazy when you REALLY cut him off. A host of lawmakers from both parties have sharply rebuked former President Trump over the past few days, after he called for the suspension of the Constitution in order to overturn the results of the 2020 election. You have to have your eyes everywhere when out with your dog, reading other dog's and people's body language. There is something called Hyper-Responsibility with OCD, where we have to be in complete command of all we do and how our behaviour may affect others, I might be wrong, but I wonder if this is playing a part with what you're coping with? You were right not to give me reassurance, it's breaking that whole thought-reassurance-temporary relief-thought-reassurance (ad nasueam!) I am done..overdone! For more tech tips, news, and updates visit - CraigPeterson.com --- Automated Machine . I've been married going on 15 & when I met OM he had a gf but not yet married. I can't tell my husband. My guess would be that you had the thought about whether it was the right thing to do by sending the photo and at that point it became an obsession, got caught up in questioning your decision and what it all meant. If you are asking someone how you were at fault, then you would say What did I do wrong? If you know how you were at fault and you are explaining that to someone else you would say What I did wrong was and elaborate on from there. x 22 Brother Allen , Jan 6, 2015 #3 Juxes Committed Player Edit: Why did you agree to be his "DC Girlfriend" ? You're onto something there, I've never really looked into Hyper Responsibility OCD but this is very possibly a strand of it. Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. Always speak to your doctor before acting and in cases of emergency seek I guess the key is recognising the distinction - that although the event was real it doesn't automatically follow that these thoughts/worries surrounding it are. 2 When you do something wrong you should say? Did I do something wrong when I agreed to ship the package next day. I had been making progress on this particular issue until I saw that message. He could really do a number in your life. The thing you did wrong was to go to France to meet him and to think that everything would be perfect. Please don't let this knock your confidence though, you sound like you're making real progress and unfortunately this is one of those nasty blips that come with the territory, take care, Hal. He's not a very forgiving type & emotionally I can't go through what I did with him while we were separated. :crybaby: I'm so annoyed at myself for looking up Yahoo Answers, I had been doing very well until then with this situation! We only have an issue when sufferers repeatedly ask for reassurance to the point that they don't move forward or aren't aware that they're asking for it. And I bet most of us are going to say "of course not, you look great". :dry: But I'm just so worried, I hope our friendship wasn't what could be classed as an "emotional affair"?? ' Did I do something wrong ? And all this happened before you got serious with your husband. My mom was visiting our city and planned to come stay and help me for the day since my husband had been working again. It could be a blessing in disguise. I'm just feeling so guilty over this and wish it never happened. 6 U. Hindsight is a great thing and now I'm going, "Oh I should have known, I should never have sent him that photo" but at the time I honestly sent him my photo only as an ID thing. It sure is, there are the odd nasty blips I come across but hopefully with CBT I will deal with them better. I don't want to sound like I'm blaming him, but he did ask me for my photo first and I figured as I'm one of the few people who don't have a Myspace, Bebo, Facebook (nowadays you can almost see a photo of anyone instantly from their profiles on these sites)I'd send him one - just "to put a face to the name" as he said. They seemed angry that I was worried by their call, as I kept asking if something had happened. And no matter how much you loved the affair, that guy never and I repeat- NEVER loved you. I'd like to steer away, mostly, from what's already been covered. This issue is still kind of bothering me. I was browsing Yahoo Answers (not a great thing to do, especially when you have GAD/OCD!) I was the other women for 2 year, and on January first of 2013 I said "Im done. We are talking about a dude that is literally sitting on his ass all day and she is working. Gemini, I agree with you about the virtual friend pitfall, I had no clue that this was happening til my friend told me which made me obsess about/analyse our previous chats. Analytical cookies are used to understand how visitors interact with the website. FORBES IMPLIES TRUMP DID NOTHING WRONG. "Did I do something wrong?" These were the words I uttered as my sister held me in her arms with tears streaming down my face. 1 Link to post Share on other sites privategal Posted June 30, 2016 privategal Established Member Established Members 1,759 posts Share Posted June 30, 2016 I agree. Anyway, Have I done something wrong? Implies to say something that is current, i.e, something that still affects in the present, for instance: You are in a party, and someone starts staring at you, you approach to him and ask whether you have done anything wrong, anything that has bothered him until. Sorry it's long and thanks for taking the time to read. Whichever way you look at it - it's all OCD and the solution's always the same - acknowledge it, ignore it and refocus. I'm afraid for your well-being here you need to go NC with your AP and somehow make it known to somebody what is going on in the event he acts out in violence towards you. I do think you're right - OCD does latch onto other real-life issues of mine, this one in particular though. Did I do something wrong ? He's had to go & I've understood. My counsellor would be angry if she knew!" Now I'm wondering should I have spoken to him on the phone? It doesn't mean anything except that you're kind and sensitive. That is the creepiest thing I have EVER heard. Nevertheless, from what you've posted here and based on everything else, I don't think that was the case, and it's quite common to request certain demographics for people in your band. My baby is 1 week old today. With that being said. there's absolutely nothing to feel guilty about! Saying, I apologize. This is a better choice of words. I know this is probably looking for reassurance and I know that's not good, but when I told my friend I was gay etc. Well yesterday at our first class I seen him peek through the glass in the door then wait a few seconds before he came in. I wished him all the best between him and his wife, but had to stop writing to him. Did I do something wrong?? You need to be a member in order to leave a comment. Like I said, I'm gay and have no interest in being with a man (that's another story!) There is nothing wrong with offering a virtual hug either, the problem is to you it is a friendship hug, to this guy I suspect he was thinking something else but that is not your fault. On former President Donald Trump, Netanyahu said that "Trump did great things for Israel," pointing to Trump's decision to recognize Jerusalem as Israel's capital and moving the U.S. embassy there and recognizing Israel's sovereignty in the Golan Heights. You made your feelings clear. I struggle with OCD and obsessive thoughts, constantly trying to think of things I may have done wrong that I feel immense guilt over until I confess to my husband. theres absolutely nothing to feel guilty about! At the of the day you made it clear nothing was going to happen so if he left his wife because of 'feelings' then that would be his choice, his decision. And he seems pretty selfish. It sure is, there are the odd nasty blips I come across but hopefully with CBT I will deal with them better. In six years I can't count how many times we hung out for hours where he wouldn't try anything. Thank you so much again for your response. I would MOVE. You're very good to reply, I know I tend to ramble a bit sometimes, lol! That's what was always strange to me. I really hope he's not left his wife. But, she was my one true love that inspired me to be a better person. Anyway, 'Have I done something wrong?' Implies to say something that is current, i.e, something that still affects in the present, for instance: You are in a party, and someone starts staring at you, you approach to him and ask whether you have done anything wrong, anything that has bothered him until. This happened with another question that looked like this where it asked how to say "the coffee" and I wrote "El caf", and it said it was wrong. Read our editorial policy. Saying, Im sorry. The most often used phrase. I'm pretty good, well, a bit up and down really, but getting there, thank-you for asking. My advice for everyone is: do not go near Yahoo Answers concerning any spikes/OCD thoughts you have! His colleague Hoda Kotb mentioned on air Thursday morning that it was wonderful hosting the . Right, President Joe Biden waves to the media as he departs the White House on October 6, 2022, in Washington, DC. All of what you said makes great sense - isn't it funny how other people can see the logic behind a situation when I myself can't! Al Roker's "Today" family is sending him love after he has been readmitted to a hospital. Patient aims to help the world proactively manage its healthcare, supplying evidence-based information on a wide range of medical and health topics to patients and health professionals. In my eyes that is the code to live by. Some people in positions of power are under the impression that they can do what they want, when they want and have no repercussions. 1 A. There are a total of 94 clues in February 18 2022 crossword puzzle. So also, in revising the current bill technical advice might be sought on the feasibility of prescribing that after a work is inputted and used for exempt purposes, it must be removed from the machine and not permitted to remain there indefinitely. You've given really great advice that has already helped me a great deal. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Analytics". Once I sent the photo to my friend I didn't give it a second thought til nearly a month later when he told me about these "feelings" he had. By Sorry I just saw this! Did I do something wrong or is this just messing up? Performance cookies are used to understand and analyze the key performance indexes of the website which helps in delivering a better user experience for the visitors. I never had to give him a chance to change because he's already wired to treat me with decent respect. By But opting out of some of these cookies may affect your browsing experience. "Do you think I did something wrong?" There is so much trolling to be done in this post Circe. I'm just feeling guilty over sending that photo (I had absolutely no idea that would happen) which I suppose is the source of my guilt. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number. It is a mess, I feel for you. Thanks again, I appreciate all your kind answers very much. Here we go with Jim. I've been with my husband since I was a teenager & I was a teenage bride, so when I thought my marriage was over & I met him it was something so different but I've been confused to about breaking up my family, I've been a stay at home mom for 15 years & am scared to death of not only what it would to my kids but them not having the quality of life they have being in the same home as their father. her 3/23/2015 02:48:38 am CNN . .wrong?" Here is your sentence. The problem is, that if you're like me and everyone else here, knowing OCD, within a couple of minutes the doubt might kick-in again. I know this is probably reassurance seeking and I know that's wrong, but do you honestly think there was an "emotional affair"? Registered in England and Wales. We feel we have to work out what this may now mean, does it have a bearing on the original problem, can it be incorporated - the trick though for me, comes back to one question - do I have to go down this old road again? Firstly there's nothing to feel guilty about - strictly speaking that does count as reassurance but when the feeling rises again, I think it's a case of reminding yourself that it isn't important and try not to engage with the feeling/accompanying thoughts. I would very much appreciate any comments/insight. He had been attracted to somebody else who lived near him only a few months before that, I thought it might be OCD/ROCD. Anyway, I immediately reiterated that I was gay and that obviosuly nothing would happen and that I only wanted him as a friend. What a prize! I don't think this was fair at all, the woman just had an online friend who she would email every couple of days and just catch up and talk about things that were bothering her. Early the next day I emailed him and wished him a happy birthday and told him that I looked forward to getting together to study. I let it slip. At one point I was about to a separation & he broke up with his gf (he didn't tell me at the time) he went from not really contacting me (we had only been intimate twice in a year at this time) to non stop. A MAN stands behind A WOMEN. It's been more than a year now, and now I'm worrying about having written to him about his profile pic. nbrokaw87 Follow Xper 4 Age: 35 Hey everyone, I have posted some questions up here in the past and gotten some great advice so I'm gonna try this again. I am tired this morning and my mom asked to take the baby for a walk outside so I could relax and have a nap. Sign up for a new account in our community. By clicking Accept All, you consent to the use of ALL the cookies. You're absolutely right. i don't keep running inventory of my stock, and sure I don't send my DH if I am able . If you have resorted to calling your ex crying or pleading with him to take you back, you have to make a promise to yourself that you won't do it again. I said yes and we got the baby changed, put. And all this happened before you got serious with your husband. . I never do something bad to him and i even try to be nice and care to him bcs i don't want to . To which I responded "not yet". This issue is still kind of bothering me. Anyway, one day about a year later he asked to see my photo. Now I'm so afraid that I could have drawn on my friend's "feelings". I shouldn't be asking for reassurance! You can say either as a complete sentence. To be honest I don't think he'd want to know. Yellow, black. if you think that this is going to make you miserable forever, then just come out and tell him. You have to use Did I do something wrong when its followed by a subordinate clause. I gave him one back and now I'm worrying over that too. Did I really do something all that wrong? These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. This guy sounds like what we call a 'player'. It all will come back to. I feel like I cheated in some weird way but I know in my heart I didn't do anything wrong and I want so badly to just tell my partner because I can't stand hiding things from him, but it would be selfish of me to plant a seed of jealousy in him just so I can feel less guilty. I think you just answered your own question. Presumably, there's some line where you shouldn't do something that bad even for good . These cookies ensure basic functionalities and security features of the website, anonymously. She moved away and married someone else. And I'm quite sure she also knew we were both OCD sufferers, so I felt it was above board. I think it just shows the pitfalls of having vitual friends. Now he's avoiding you because he doesn't know what to say. So I'm not entirely convinced his "feelings" for me were real, and whether they may have been a symptom of R-OCD or not. He said yes. How did I do? I have GAD as well as OCD so maybe I'm overreacting, but I honestly would like to know, did I do something wrong in the above? as being in breach of those terms. Contexts Past tense for misdo Past tense for to lose one's dignity, temper, or self-control Past tense for to desecrate or decrease the value, character, or quality of Past tense for to inflict emotional or physical harm or distress upon Verb Past tense for misdo misdid misimplemented messed up Verb Anyway, SS keeps asking about the wedding, so I asked him if he wanted to see some pics. I have my next appointment on Tuesday so am looking forward to that and hopefully continue on the road to getting better. That's my take on it & ((hugs)). I cannot remember if this was before my husband and I started dating but we were getting to know each other, or if it was before I met my husband completely. Part of my CBT is all about not seeking reassurance and just accepting the thoughts and just thinking about something pleasant. Created by: Wildflower What is your age? Never thought I'd see him again but we ended up running into each other & doing it again, which after he freaked out & kicked me out of his house. I had been doing very well until then with this situation! I have a feeling though that the OCD is making you question your behaviour - but try not to engage with the doubt. The baby isn't connected to the porn, at all. Sorry for the essay, lol! If you do notice them - the key is to acknowledge that they're OCD and refuse to play ball by refusing to engage with them and refocusing on enjoying yourself. She is married to someone else now, but still drops into my life now and again. I've never had one do this before. I was only trying to help someone else suffer from the same OCD as myself, I had no romantic interest in them whatsoever! What is important now is that you don't ruminate on this Imogen. Quora User You couldnt be used or swayed so hes punishing you. I told him yes (of course I said yes, I really like him). I know that's easy for me to write and suggest, but it is the only way forward. TikTok video from monkkzworld (@monkkzworld): "aviation, there is no way a bee should be able to fly. Did I do something wrong? You are being used. The bee, of course, flies anyway because bees don't care what humans think is impossible. Patient does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Did I do something wrong Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. I tried. I guess it's classic OCD/GAD (which I also have - lucky meNOT!) Anonymous: Anonymous wrote: Anonymous wrote:Shocked at the amount of people ripping into OP for not getting her own pads. When I sent him my photo it was NEVER MY INTENTION for anything like this to happen - I sent my photo to my friend for friendship and identification purposes and could never have guessed anything like this would happen. You can't worry about stuff like that. Firstly the guy wasn't really "a terrorist". Welcome again - and please make as much use of the forums as you'd like..Hal. You made some excellent points there; deep down I know it would not be my fault but it's the OCD that just makes me keep going over it time and time again and worry about it. I don't think I've ever been so angry with anyone. So today I told my FWB earlier this morning how I would like to cut the benefits and he says okay, later one tonight I told him my reason why and then he tells me that its okay, its fine I would still like to be friends with you or whatever. Absolutely, something I've become rather better at in the last few weeks (it's only very recent as I FINALLY started CBT in the New Year) is refusing to dwell on any negative thoughts and instead thinking positive thoughts. Wow, I can't believe it's been more than a year since I started this thread! The fact is you did nothing wrong (other than putting up with her crap for years) and one day you'll find someone content in being with you, for being yourself- not for your money. I know you've had a lot going on with family. I'm hoping it works. I cant help who decides to message me/email me. I am working on it with him but to hear 6 years, he'd never forgive me. I wasnt trying to bother you. Claiming she had planed on taking him hunting today. Answer (1 of 19): You've had several brilliant answers here. Although I got what I wanted (and we are still happily together and have been talking a lot about marriage) I still feel like in the making of my own happiness I had to take others down the road of hurt with me. This is crazy - it's now over 18 months since I last had any contact with my friend and yet it still bugs me. but I can't stop feeling guilty. 2 R. 3 E. 4 Y. Fast forward to 4 weeks ago, I met with him & we started kissing but my husband texted me to get home, so I had to go. I THOUGHT he was doing fine but apparently I overlooked something. Delete the OM number and don't look back- and if one day you do- then only remember all the hurt and tears that her brought to you and your family. pages. John Walker did, in fact, do something wrong. . What is an example of a case sensitive password? I love him & I've always told him that but I truly did try to break it off & when I did & we'd see each other, he's follow me (he's a police officer in the town where all the malls & shopping are) until I just break. I don't understand! So a POLICE OFFICER sat in his CAR in PUBLIC, MASTURBATING? #i thought we were gonna have a nice morning #i was gonna make pancakes for him and tommy and michael #tommy is really on edge too #i don't know what's going on #i didnt write anything down in my . If I had known this would happen I would never have sent it in a million years, and it was a very ordinary photo - just a head and shoulders shot, I actually sent the same one to a couple of my other online friends just before this (one of whom is in a relationship) as a frienship thing so when sending this one had no idea it would turn out like this! A huge thank you for the reply. Half of my classmates think that I'm the villain for not liking him back. I have had the shittiest week (including today). Keep working on the recall. As I've said before, I'm a gay woman and was online friends with a married man, both of us suffere from OCD and would email one another every day or two just to chat or to help one another with spikes etc. To clarify what I meant, worrying over this issue is I think additional to the OCD thoughts - the OCD I have is based on events I fear happening (I've had this for the last 10/11 years now). 1. They had just called a code blue and were now doing everything they could to save my son's life. There's a saying that I wish I had a fiver for everytime I'd heard it 'if it feels like OCD it probably is OCD.'. We'll let you off this time Seriously though you're always welcome, that's why we're here. React 1 Reply You have been a fantastic help Hal, thank you so much, I really appreciate it, especially reading through my many long essays in this post! CORRECT. 11 T. 12 M. 13 E. Related Clues. I come from a family of no divorce & when my husband & I did separate for a couple of months (when I got pregnant with baby number2 on a drunken night with my husband) my family turned on me & told me I must fix it. You leave her today, or ill leave you." Driving the news: Repeating his oft-cited false claims of . Kinda hard to do something wrong with such limited interaction, the extent of which is you walking past him from time to time. Soon after I just mentioned I was gay in an email. Did I do something wrong meaning? A story of love lost. These cookies help provide information on metrics the number of visitors, bounce rate, traffic source, etc. He elected not to run for any office because in the third grade his teacher told him that Black people could never be president (true story). Thanks Hal, I really appreciate that What you say makes so much sense, I'm doing a lot better with the thoughts of the other OCD themes I used to suffer from so much say 3 or 4 years ago because I'm just refusing to engage with those thoughts. What is another word for did wrong? I think the image of throwing the thought into a rubbish bin is a great idea - it's a kind of symbolic letting-go of the thoughts so I'm definitely going to try that! What did I do wrong? The police? You had a good time and that is what should matter. In a way when we're busy we automatically dismiss the thoughts because we're too focused on what we need to do - of course just when we want to enjoy ourselves and relax that's when we begin to notice them again. I told him when it happens I faint and my eyes shut but left out that I sometimes get seizures because I didn't want to get him worried because he said I was scaring him jokingly. I just don't understand why if he knows I love him and he loves me but he tells me he cant give me what I deserve does he still want to be with me every day? My friend just wanted a pic to put a face to the name and one day I just sent it along with the same pic to a couple of other friends. It's been so hard to do, as it's literally trying to break the habits of 12 or so years! I'm not sure I've expressed that too well, but I hope you get the jist of what I'm trying to get at. (Both the online friend and woman who posted the question on Yahoo Answers were married to different people). OCD has raised all these distortions of the truth and fears that had never occurred to me at the time, or indeed never did til the other day, and then I panic. Ive been married going on 15 & when I met OM he had a gf but not yet married. seriously, me too. Thanks a million for the reply, hope you're keeping well since we last spoke! This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. Try not to get caught into dwelling and re-thinking what happened and how it happened, that's really not important - the important point always to remember is that a perfectly innocent action has been sabotaged by OCD. I wanted to tell you about my (recent) experience, of doing exactly what you've just done, and to let you know how mine has worked out (so far). Answer. Last night at 1-3 am my best friend (he recently. Again everything you said made perfect sense. On another forum, 2 years ago, I made friends with a guy from another country who was suffering from the same kind of OCD as me, we would email one another every few days. Thank you. #vwoops #did i do something wrong? Joe Raedle . Please be careful of this one. We got into a lengthy discussion about Hunter Biden and the legitimacy of the emails and how to tell, also about computer repair shops and then a little about Steve Scully's tweet and his lies about it. You did nothing wrong. But yes, refocusing and thinking positive thoughts instead is the way to go here! 1 Agree 0 Disagree This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. Get it over with so you can have some peace. I've never been one to have a guy control me. But, my best advice is to go home, cry a little-maybe even lot- but tell your husband everything. By the way, I'm gay (attracted only to women - not to men). Vote 2 2 comments Best Add a Comment How long does it take for MI band to charge? I found myself nodding and agreeing with everything and saying "Yep, that's described the situation perfect!". I am not kidding. I feel for you OP, you know you need to detach and move forward without him, even with the feelings of "why is he rejecting me". So, when I arrived a few minutes later, they seemed to already be upset or mad at me and immediately treated us very . His research focuses on the Soviet Union's relations with Western Europe and the United States during the years 1917 and 1945. "When he's nice, he's like the nicest person I've ever met. Good morning, everybody. I think lust sometimes clouds the eyes of reality and therefore clouding the vision of love. WRONG Have I done .. is the present perfect. It's been dormant for a few months as I was busy at work, but now that I'm on holidays it's come back and it's bothering me again. Yellow, black. We want the forums to be a useful resource for our users but it is important to remember that the forums are You're right, when I was working I was so up to in my eyes in deadlines I didn't engage with the thoughts but now that I'm on holidays and trying to relax they've come back with a bang. I don't know why they did all of that just bcs I rejected him NICELY. This seems pretty obvious I know. Why is IVF not recommended for women over 42? I know I shouldnt have gotten a little heated at him for saying I was crying but I wasn't and he kept saying I was like three times through "no I wasn't." "Yes you were!" I'm just confused. He asked me what made me want another child & tried kissing me while pregnant. At one point I was about to a separation & he broke up with his. Photo: Joe Raedle/Getty Images. Any advice on how to deal with this thought? Netanyahu said that the rise in anti-Semitism was "one of the unfortunate . I completely agree that the more power you give the thoughts, the more of a hold they have on you. Sweet baby Jesus! CORRECT Have I done something wrong when I agreed to. When its your turn to apologize for your customers perceived error, company wrong doing, or misdeed, here are the options: (1) She accepted that she had acted unwisely and mistakenly. Maybe this is a chance to end it for good and come clean to your hubby and work on your marriage. :doh: In fairness to him though he didn't confess them until I told him I was gay when it came up by chance(so he knew before he confessed there wasn't a hope in hell we would ever be together). Functional cookies help to perform certain functionalities like sharing the content of the website on social media platforms, collect feedbacks, and other third-party features. This Forbes interview below strongly implies Trump did nothing wrong. He asked his gf to marry him several weeks later. I sure hope not!! I honestly did not know that anything like that would happen. You are a piece of ass of him. To him. You got a real winner on your hands there. He competes in USTA tournaments, Junior Team Tennis and high school tennis, and in September, at just 15 years old, he became a Professional Tennis Registry (PTR) Level 1 certified coach, making him the youngest in the country with that designation. "Have wrong." While the end of your sentence is a quotation which is a question, do nor add another question mark. The thing is though that OCD doesn't only fix onto things that could possibly happen, they can latch onto almost anything including incidents that have happened in the past - It comes down to how much we're dwelling on an issue and the anxiety we feel about it. How do you say what you did wrong in a sentence? I think that's a bad move [to fight me]. 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